Wednesday, 16 March 2016

The one that got away...

Heyyyy Everyone, 

Do you ever just look at a guy and think 'if you asked me to marry you right now I would totally say yes'? And I'm not talking about David Beckham or any other hot celebrities that come to mind. I'm also not talking to you girls in happy relationships who wake up every morning praying today is the day. No, I'm talking to us single lasses who genuinely fall for a guy within the first hour of meeting them, and although the chances of you even getting to kiss this guy are slim you still start to mentally plan your wedding and name your children. It's kind of shitty when this happens because you start to get angry with yourself, 'this is my perfect man, why am I not his perfect women?'..'why is not like the movies when they both realise they are perfect for each other and it only takes one look to know?'..'It's because I'm too fat, and I don't do my make up right, and I have shit fashion sense'.. Yes, these are genuine thoughts that have gone through my head. 

This is the moment when you have a choice - you can have a mental break down about the fact that the most perfect human being on the planet for you doesn't realise how perfect you could be together and so you need to bury yourself in shit rom-coms for at least a week - OR - you can pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get over it (and maybe one day he will realise and come back to you). Yeah yeah, it's alright me saying 'just get over it for god sake women', but we all know in reality that's not the easiest thing to do, so I have put together a few of my top tips! 

1. It sounds cliché, the old 'to get over him you need to get under someone else', but there is some truth in the matter. If your mind is on someone else you won't be thinking about them. If you're messaging someone else them you're not checking your phone for them to message. Makes sense huh?

2. Chocolate. Honestly it helps. Just eat until you feel sick! 

3. Remove all love songs from your iPod. Or just make a playlist and only allow yourself to listen to that playlist. The last thing you want is a cheesy love song coming on making you think about your imaginary love with the perfect man. 

4. Get addicted to something on Netflix. It takes up all your time so you can't possibly spend your time 'breaking down'. 

5. Finally, really just snap out of it, whenever you start feeling down, if you have already eaten a chocolate bar, watched an episode on netflix, made plans to meet up with your new fancy man, and you're still feeling down or upset, just remember everything happens for a reason, and there is a reason you're not together, it might not be evident now, but it will be soon!

Have you had to get over that 'guy that got away' recently? Did you do anything differently to what I have listed? 

Ciao EmmaJessica <3

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